"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girls keeps telling me I shouldn't hesitate to jump out if I find a better one

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Hi guys,

I have been dating this girl for a few weeks. I have actually known her for some time and felt that she had always liked me. But I wasn't really interested before because she seemed to be not mature enough. Now she is 25 and I (34) felt I should give it a try.

Actually from that point on she has sent me a lot of messages, very sweet and romantic ones (how lucky she is to have me and so on). But maybe once a week she says something like "if I find a better girl I should tell her so we can make a clean cut" or "she doesn't know for how long it will go on but she feels so happy now".

What is it?
What would a DJ do?
What would a nice guy do (and should therefore be avoided)?

Cheers,

Martyk
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I wouldn't worry about it Marty. Just ignore that bullsh1t & keep doing what you're doing :up:
 
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tell her youre gonna trade her in soon for a better one. then send her the song "left my old b!tch at home, got a new one" by juicy j. lol
 
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Possible self esteem issues? As in, I don't think I'm good enough for you, so I'd rather you break it off early than have me really fall for you and then break my heart?

Chicks are crazy
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeah, probably self esteem issues. Maybe she wants me to tell her that she's the only one blabla.. Until now I have simply tried to ignore it and I'll probably continue doing so.
 
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