"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Girls keeps telling me I shouldn't hesitate to jump out if I find a better one

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Hi guys,

I have been dating this girl for a few weeks. I have actually known her for some time and felt that she had always liked me. But I wasn't really interested before because she seemed to be not mature enough. Now she is 25 and I (34) felt I should give it a try.

Actually from that point on she has sent me a lot of messages, very sweet and romantic ones (how lucky she is to have me and so on). But maybe once a week she says something like "if I find a better girl I should tell her so we can make a clean cut" or "she doesn't know for how long it will go on but she feels so happy now".

What is it?
What would a DJ do?
What would a nice guy do (and should therefore be avoided)?

Cheers,

Martyk
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I wouldn't worry about it Marty. Just ignore that bullsh1t & keep doing what you're doing :up:
 
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tell her youre gonna trade her in soon for a better one. then send her the song "left my old b!tch at home, got a new one" by juicy j. lol
 
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Possible self esteem issues? As in, I don't think I'm good enough for you, so I'd rather you break it off early than have me really fall for you and then break my heart?

Chicks are crazy
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yeah, probably self esteem issues. Maybe she wants me to tell her that she's the only one blabla.. Until now I have simply tried to ignore it and I'll probably continue doing so.
 
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