"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girls keeps telling me I shouldn't hesitate to jump out if I find a better one

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Hi guys,

I have been dating this girl for a few weeks. I have actually known her for some time and felt that she had always liked me. But I wasn't really interested before because she seemed to be not mature enough. Now she is 25 and I (34) felt I should give it a try.

Actually from that point on she has sent me a lot of messages, very sweet and romantic ones (how lucky she is to have me and so on). But maybe once a week she says something like "if I find a better girl I should tell her so we can make a clean cut" or "she doesn't know for how long it will go on but she feels so happy now".

What is it?
What would a DJ do?
What would a nice guy do (and should therefore be avoided)?

Cheers,

Martyk
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wouldn't worry about it Marty. Just ignore that bullsh1t & keep doing what you're doing :up:
 
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tell her youre gonna trade her in soon for a better one. then send her the song "left my old b!tch at home, got a new one" by juicy j. lol
 
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Possible self esteem issues? As in, I don't think I'm good enough for you, so I'd rather you break it off early than have me really fall for you and then break my heart?

Chicks are crazy
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yeah, probably self esteem issues. Maybe she wants me to tell her that she's the only one blabla.. Until now I have simply tried to ignore it and I'll probably continue doing so.
 
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