"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girls keeps telling me I shouldn't hesitate to jump out if I find a better one

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Hi guys,

I have been dating this girl for a few weeks. I have actually known her for some time and felt that she had always liked me. But I wasn't really interested before because she seemed to be not mature enough. Now she is 25 and I (34) felt I should give it a try.

Actually from that point on she has sent me a lot of messages, very sweet and romantic ones (how lucky she is to have me and so on). But maybe once a week she says something like "if I find a better girl I should tell her so we can make a clean cut" or "she doesn't know for how long it will go on but she feels so happy now".

What is it?
What would a DJ do?
What would a nice guy do (and should therefore be avoided)?

Cheers,

Martyk
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I wouldn't worry about it Marty. Just ignore that bullsh1t & keep doing what you're doing :up:
 
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tell her youre gonna trade her in soon for a better one. then send her the song "left my old b!tch at home, got a new one" by juicy j. lol
 
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Possible self esteem issues? As in, I don't think I'm good enough for you, so I'd rather you break it off early than have me really fall for you and then break my heart?

Chicks are crazy
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Yeah, probably self esteem issues. Maybe she wants me to tell her that she's the only one blabla.. Until now I have simply tried to ignore it and I'll probably continue doing so.
 
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