"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girls at work? yes? no?

Girls at work?

  • Yes

    Votes: 6 35.3%

  • No

    Votes: 11 64.7%
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DJ Miquelo

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Whassup guys.

I was wondering what u guys think about getting involved with/banging girls at your workplace?

I wouldnt have thought it would be too problematic myself but id like some second opinions.

You think it might be awkward or strange in anyway? Think its best avoided cos ull see her most days at work??

Be cool bros
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Warrior74

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If its your career, I would say no. I personally won't risk my career and my daugther's benefits for some poon at work. Then again my boss and her husband met at work. Just don't get all emotional, and emo on the chic if things go sour, because that could cost you dearly, and make sure she's not a crazy biitch.
 
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dont sh!t where you work dude
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Thats the attraction for me, knowing that with one fowl swoop, you could be finished. FINISHED. FINISHED.. MWHAHHAA.

(I haven't masturbated in six days, it's getting to me).
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Hughman

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Well, I'm pretty damn likely to be banging and marrying a woman from my employer - the NHS.

If I want anything serious, it's only those within the NHS and possibly intensive law and finance posts would actually understand the stress I'm going to be under, unless I strike gold somewhere else.
 
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TizZle

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Warrior74 said:
If its your career, I would say no. I personally won't risk my career and my daugther's benefits for some poon at work. Then again my boss and her husband met at work. Just don't get all emotional, and emo on the chic if things go sour, because that could cost you dearly, and make sure she's not a crazy biitch.
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Spot on advice.
 
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Mr. Bond

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Depends. It seems to work out all right if the two of you are peers and you don't break her heart. However, I've slept with a woman who is higher up than me, and I regret it. I don't want anyone having leverage over me.
 
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Generally, I think it's a bad idea. If things go south everybody knows your business, and then you're stuck in an awkward situation working next to an ex.

Having said that, I've done it before. It's easy to develop an attraction for someone when you see so much of them, day in and day out. I've also noticed that when people work unusual shifts, they often hook up since the people out in the "normal" world don't follow their schedule.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Not unless you have another option for a job. Things might come out awesome, but if they go sour there is no escape!
 
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DJ Miquelo

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yeah i see what ur saying.

Thing about this is that its not my career or anything so the job isnt that important to me but still id prefer to have that job instead of some random ass which i can find elsewhere!
 
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