"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Girls at work? yes? no?

Girls at work?

  • Yes

    Votes: 6 35.3%
  • No

    Votes: 11 64.7%

  • Total voters
    17

DJ Miquelo

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Whassup guys.

I was wondering what u guys think about getting involved with/banging girls at your workplace?

I wouldnt have thought it would be too problematic myself but id like some second opinions.

You think it might be awkward or strange in anyway? Think its best avoided cos ull see her most days at work??

Be cool bros
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Warrior74

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If its your career, I would say no. I personally won't risk my career and my daugther's benefits for some poon at work. Then again my boss and her husband met at work. Just don't get all emotional, and emo on the chic if things go sour, because that could cost you dearly, and make sure she's not a crazy biitch.
 
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dont sh!t where you work dude
Thats the attraction for me, knowing that with one fowl swoop, you could be finished. FINISHED. FINISHED.. MWHAHHAA.

(I haven't masturbated in six days, it's getting to me).
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hughman

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Well, I'm pretty damn likely to be banging and marrying a woman from my employer - the NHS.

If I want anything serious, it's only those within the NHS and possibly intensive law and finance posts would actually understand the stress I'm going to be under, unless I strike gold somewhere else.
 

TizZle

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Warrior74 said:
If its your career, I would say no. I personally won't risk my career and my daugther's benefits for some poon at work. Then again my boss and her husband met at work. Just don't get all emotional, and emo on the chic if things go sour, because that could cost you dearly, and make sure she's not a crazy biitch.
Spot on advice.
 

Mr. Bond

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Depends. It seems to work out all right if the two of you are peers and you don't break her heart. However, I've slept with a woman who is higher up than me, and I regret it. I don't want anyone having leverage over me.
 

zekko

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Generally, I think it's a bad idea. If things go south everybody knows your business, and then you're stuck in an awkward situation working next to an ex.

Having said that, I've done it before. It's easy to develop an attraction for someone when you see so much of them, day in and day out. I've also noticed that when people work unusual shifts, they often hook up since the people out in the "normal" world don't follow their schedule.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Alle_Gory

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Not unless you have another option for a job. Things might come out awesome, but if they go sour there is no escape!
 

DJ Miquelo

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yeah i see what ur saying.

Thing about this is that its not my career or anything so the job isnt that important to me but still id prefer to have that job instead of some random ass which i can find elsewhere!
 
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