"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girls at work? yes? no?

Girls at work?

  • Yes

    Votes: 6 35.3%
  • No

    Votes: 11 64.7%

  • Total voters
    17

DJ Miquelo

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Whassup guys.

I was wondering what u guys think about getting involved with/banging girls at your workplace?

I wouldnt have thought it would be too problematic myself but id like some second opinions.

You think it might be awkward or strange in anyway? Think its best avoided cos ull see her most days at work??

Be cool bros
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74

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If its your career, I would say no. I personally won't risk my career and my daugther's benefits for some poon at work. Then again my boss and her husband met at work. Just don't get all emotional, and emo on the chic if things go sour, because that could cost you dearly, and make sure she's not a crazy biitch.
 
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dont sh!t where you work dude
Thats the attraction for me, knowing that with one fowl swoop, you could be finished. FINISHED. FINISHED.. MWHAHHAA.

(I haven't masturbated in six days, it's getting to me).
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Hughman

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Well, I'm pretty damn likely to be banging and marrying a woman from my employer - the NHS.

If I want anything serious, it's only those within the NHS and possibly intensive law and finance posts would actually understand the stress I'm going to be under, unless I strike gold somewhere else.
 

TizZle

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Warrior74 said:
If its your career, I would say no. I personally won't risk my career and my daugther's benefits for some poon at work. Then again my boss and her husband met at work. Just don't get all emotional, and emo on the chic if things go sour, because that could cost you dearly, and make sure she's not a crazy biitch.
Spot on advice.
 

Mr. Bond

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Depends. It seems to work out all right if the two of you are peers and you don't break her heart. However, I've slept with a woman who is higher up than me, and I regret it. I don't want anyone having leverage over me.
 

zekko

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Generally, I think it's a bad idea. If things go south everybody knows your business, and then you're stuck in an awkward situation working next to an ex.

Having said that, I've done it before. It's easy to develop an attraction for someone when you see so much of them, day in and day out. I've also noticed that when people work unusual shifts, they often hook up since the people out in the "normal" world don't follow their schedule.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alle_Gory

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Not unless you have another option for a job. Things might come out awesome, but if they go sour there is no escape!
 

DJ Miquelo

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yeah i see what ur saying.

Thing about this is that its not my career or anything so the job isnt that important to me but still id prefer to have that job instead of some random ass which i can find elsewhere!
 
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