"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Girls at work? yes? no?

Girls at work?

  • Yes

    Votes: 6 35.3%

  • No

    Votes: 11 64.7%
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DJ Miquelo

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Whassup guys.

I was wondering what u guys think about getting involved with/banging girls at your workplace?

I wouldnt have thought it would be too problematic myself but id like some second opinions.

You think it might be awkward or strange in anyway? Think its best avoided cos ull see her most days at work??

Be cool bros
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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If its your career, I would say no. I personally won't risk my career and my daugther's benefits for some poon at work. Then again my boss and her husband met at work. Just don't get all emotional, and emo on the chic if things go sour, because that could cost you dearly, and make sure she's not a crazy biitch.
 
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dont sh!t where you work dude
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Thats the attraction for me, knowing that with one fowl swoop, you could be finished. FINISHED. FINISHED.. MWHAHHAA.

(I haven't masturbated in six days, it's getting to me).
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hughman

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Well, I'm pretty damn likely to be banging and marrying a woman from my employer - the NHS.

If I want anything serious, it's only those within the NHS and possibly intensive law and finance posts would actually understand the stress I'm going to be under, unless I strike gold somewhere else.
 
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Warrior74 said:
If its your career, I would say no. I personally won't risk my career and my daugther's benefits for some poon at work. Then again my boss and her husband met at work. Just don't get all emotional, and emo on the chic if things go sour, because that could cost you dearly, and make sure she's not a crazy biitch.
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Spot on advice.
 
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Depends. It seems to work out all right if the two of you are peers and you don't break her heart. However, I've slept with a woman who is higher up than me, and I regret it. I don't want anyone having leverage over me.
 
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Generally, I think it's a bad idea. If things go south everybody knows your business, and then you're stuck in an awkward situation working next to an ex.

Having said that, I've done it before. It's easy to develop an attraction for someone when you see so much of them, day in and day out. I've also noticed that when people work unusual shifts, they often hook up since the people out in the "normal" world don't follow their schedule.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Not unless you have another option for a job. Things might come out awesome, but if they go sour there is no escape!
 
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DJ Miquelo

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yeah i see what ur saying.

Thing about this is that its not my career or anything so the job isnt that important to me but still id prefer to have that job instead of some random ass which i can find elsewhere!
 
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