"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Girlfriend says, "I want to see you more"..

shark

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Well i go to school with her, but we don't have classes. We run into eachother once a day however, but that is nothing. She said she wants to see me more and i said "i know thats why we have to make up for it on the weekends." keep in mind this is a LTR and were use to seeing eachother alot more due to summer break. We both got after school stuff till 6 so afterschool isnt much of an opiton

Whats a good, positive, responce i can give or say. Should i take any actions to see her more? I know it's GOOD not to see her much but i dont want her losing interest in me for it either.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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shark

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Yah..but we really can only on the weekends. So what to do? Or say?
 

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Well, why not take her out someplace during a weeknight, no harm in that eh? You gotta mix things up once in awhile to let her know, you want to spend time with her.

And yes, don't make the mistake of seeing each other every day, especially if you don't know her at least a 9-12 months.
 

nishbuk

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Originally posted by shark
Yah..but we really can only on the weekends. So what to do? Or say?
Well, you should surprise her one weeknight. But don't do it too often! And then see her on the weekends. It's hard to keep things interesting when you see the girl on the same day of the week every week.
 
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