"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well i go to school with her, but we don't have classes. We run into eachother once a day however, but that is nothing. She said she wants to see me more and i said "i know thats why we have to make up for it on the weekends." keep in mind this is a LTR and were use to seeing eachother alot more due to summer break. We both got after school stuff till 6 so afterschool isnt much of an opiton

Whats a good, positive, responce i can give or say. Should i take any actions to see her more? I know it's GOOD not to see her much but i dont want her losing interest in me for it either.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Yah..but we really can only on the weekends. So what to do? Or say?
 
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Well, why not take her out someplace during a weeknight, no harm in that eh? You gotta mix things up once in awhile to let her know, you want to spend time with her.

And yes, don't make the mistake of seeing each other every day, especially if you don't know her at least a 9-12 months.
 
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Originally posted by shark
Yah..but we really can only on the weekends. So what to do? Or say?
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Well, you should surprise her one weeknight. But don't do it too often! And then see her on the weekends. It's hard to keep things interesting when you see the girl on the same day of the week every week.
 
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