"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Girlfriend says, "I want to see you more"..

shark

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Well i go to school with her, but we don't have classes. We run into eachother once a day however, but that is nothing. She said she wants to see me more and i said "i know thats why we have to make up for it on the weekends." keep in mind this is a LTR and were use to seeing eachother alot more due to summer break. We both got after school stuff till 6 so afterschool isnt much of an opiton

Whats a good, positive, responce i can give or say. Should i take any actions to see her more? I know it's GOOD not to see her much but i dont want her losing interest in me for it either.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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shark

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Yah..but we really can only on the weekends. So what to do? Or say?
 

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Well, why not take her out someplace during a weeknight, no harm in that eh? You gotta mix things up once in awhile to let her know, you want to spend time with her.

And yes, don't make the mistake of seeing each other every day, especially if you don't know her at least a 9-12 months.
 

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Originally posted by shark
Yah..but we really can only on the weekends. So what to do? Or say?
Well, you should surprise her one weeknight. But don't do it too often! And then see her on the weekends. It's hard to keep things interesting when you see the girl on the same day of the week every week.
 
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