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Girlfriend says, "I want to see you more"..

shark

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Well i go to school with her, but we don't have classes. We run into eachother once a day however, but that is nothing. She said she wants to see me more and i said "i know thats why we have to make up for it on the weekends." keep in mind this is a LTR and were use to seeing eachother alot more due to summer break. We both got after school stuff till 6 so afterschool isnt much of an opiton

Whats a good, positive, responce i can give or say. Should i take any actions to see her more? I know it's GOOD not to see her much but i dont want her losing interest in me for it either.
 

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Yah..but we really can only on the weekends. So what to do? Or say?
 

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Well, why not take her out someplace during a weeknight, no harm in that eh? You gotta mix things up once in awhile to let her know, you want to spend time with her.

And yes, don't make the mistake of seeing each other every day, especially if you don't know her at least a 9-12 months.
 

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Originally posted by shark
Yah..but we really can only on the weekends. So what to do? Or say?
Well, you should surprise her one weeknight. But don't do it too often! And then see her on the weekends. It's hard to keep things interesting when you see the girl on the same day of the week every week.
 
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