"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Girlfriend says, "I want to see you more"..

shark

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Well i go to school with her, but we don't have classes. We run into eachother once a day however, but that is nothing. She said she wants to see me more and i said "i know thats why we have to make up for it on the weekends." keep in mind this is a LTR and were use to seeing eachother alot more due to summer break. We both got after school stuff till 6 so afterschool isnt much of an opiton

Whats a good, positive, responce i can give or say. Should i take any actions to see her more? I know it's GOOD not to see her much but i dont want her losing interest in me for it either.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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shark

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Yah..but we really can only on the weekends. So what to do? Or say?
 

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Well, why not take her out someplace during a weeknight, no harm in that eh? You gotta mix things up once in awhile to let her know, you want to spend time with her.

And yes, don't make the mistake of seeing each other every day, especially if you don't know her at least a 9-12 months.
 

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Originally posted by shark
Yah..but we really can only on the weekends. So what to do? Or say?
Well, you should surprise her one weeknight. But don't do it too often! And then see her on the weekends. It's hard to keep things interesting when you see the girl on the same day of the week every week.
 
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