In2theGame
Master Don Juan
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Sounds right to me. Back in college, my girlfriend cheated on me then said it was my fault since I made her feel unattractive by making a comment about a celebrity being hot. Interesting how common this pattern turns out to be.And now she is blaming the OP for not being attracted to her so she can have the perfect rationalization to cheat.
It would be good to learn to recognize when a girl you're banging has a boyfriend that she's not telling you about. Any other signs that people have come across?They'd asked me what I'd think of their new hairdo prior to the fvck but ends up in the morning looking guilty, nervous and a few had tears in their eyes..wtf