Girlfriend of a year put a pink streak in her hair.

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You know, If I were you, I probably would of let it slide a little bit if she came to me with "Baby, I really like this look. I think it's cute, I know you don't like it much but I want to keep it" Then I would be willing to bend a little but her coming out with "If you're not attracted to me over hair color I dont give a fvck" I would of told her "Do me a favor, get the fvck out of here with that attitude and don't contact me until you change that fvcking tone" That's how you should of handled that disrespect from her.

I wish I would have thought of this, but I got off center.

I’m not sure exactly what to do now, because I don’t want to act like this behavior is ok, that disrespect.
 

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I wish I would have thought of this, but I got off center.

I’m not sure exactly what to do now, because I don’t want to act like this behavior is ok, that disrespect.
The best way to deal with it, is to remove yourself from the situation.

Use extremely limited contact until things improve and the dust settles.

Her drama is her business, not yours.
 

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I just came a cross a relevant quote from Roosh that reminded me of this thread:
If a girl cuts her hair short even though you explicitly told her you dislike short hair, she’s saying that she doesn’t care about your opinion, and is essentially daring you to break up with her. You then have grounds to downgrade the relationship, but her insolent act indicates it’s likely that she has already downgraded it. If a girl does something she knows you don’t like, she’s essentially slapping you in the face. You must not ignore it.
Her action indicates that her Alpha-perception of you is very low. The conversation between @peanutbuttablunts @In2theGame @wifehunter @Spaz @LARaiders85 about her being primed for cheating seems to be on point.

It's been three months. Does the OP have an update?
 

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I’m not really into this and I’ve told her this before, but out of nowhere she comes in with a pink strand in her hair.

It didn’t look bad but I don’t know I don’t really like stuff like this and she knows this, she says it’s her hair and can do what she wants and I said I don’t have to be attracted to it.

She knew I wouldn’t like it and did it anyway, how should I handle this
A chick i was smashin got the Kristi mack porn star, MK goro haircut. The one that is attention ***** on tren and implies she eats box too.

I simply lost her digits.
 

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Deleted for wrong thread lol
 
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I see weird hair color as a red flag when meeting a woman (stranger) for the first time.
I don’t see much of an issue with it if we have been in a relationship for a while. I like it when my women change up their hair color. It almost feels like I am banging a new girl. Either way I would keep an eye out for any other new changes.
 
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A lot of female patterns can be explained away and diagnosed if you had success with girls in high school because their behaviors don't change much. When I was in high school, the ones with colorful hair were the slvttiest. Changing their hair color is a way to make themselves look more feminine and attractive (probably because she needs a different c0ck to fulfill her desires). And now she is blaming the OP for not being attracted to her so she can have the perfect rationalization to cheat. She will find someone else who is "attracted", have sex with him, and blame the OP.

In reality, she was already ready to explore her sexuality. She just needed the perfect rationalization to absolve herself from feeling guilty.

A woman feels something first, and then acts on it. So she was already feeling like she was ready to ride the c0ck carousel. The argument and blaming of the bf was a springboard for her next phase in life: The c0ck carousel.
 
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Funny, I dated a hot blonde a while back with a pink strand in her hair. She did it for breast cancer awareness and decided to keep it. Personally I found it sexy. To each their own.

That same girl also got a tattoo when she was married. And of course her husband at the time was strictly against it, yet she did it anyways. From what I gather, it was around this time that she started checking out of the relationship. 2 years later, they were divorced.

A woman's honor, loyalty, and respect towards a man is only conditional when she feels her needs are being met. The minute she starts to feel they aren't is when you see issues like this creep up. That said thing is, they never tell you why and the less experienced men don't figure it out until it's too late.

OP, I think this is a sign of more things to come.
 
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These are the kind of things that should be covered in conversation early in the relationship. Setting boundaries such as this is best handled by talking about how a woman’s hair is very important to a man and that “Most men are greatly disturbed when their woman makes drastic changes without talking to him first”. I’ve never been with a woman who challenged me on that.

All men should understand that a woman who is worth his time will desire to please him and will work to make sure that she is attractive to HIM. She should always consider his preferences when it comes to how she presents herself.
 
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And now she is blaming the OP for not being attracted to her so she can have the perfect rationalization to cheat.
Sounds right to me. Back in college, my girlfriend cheated on me then said it was my fault since I made her feel unattractive by making a comment about a celebrity being hot. Interesting how common this pattern turns out to be.
They'd asked me what I'd think of their new hairdo prior to the fvck but ends up in the morning looking guilty, nervous and a few had tears in their eyes..wtf
It would be good to learn to recognize when a girl you're banging has a boyfriend that she's not telling you about. Any other signs that people have come across?
 
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