BeExcellent
Master Don Juan
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OP, What response did you get when you sent her the photo with a hot skinnier woman?
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
She said she felt insecure now and wished she didn’t see itOP, What response did you get when you sent her the photo with a hot skinnier woman?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Until she’s on her knees in front of you? She’s going to have to make it up to you. All that girl stupidity has a price.How long do I keep it up for
No wonder she's being disrespectful and has lost attraction.How can I downgrade her from my girlfriend, I really can’t deal with this
No wonder she's being disrespectful and has lost attraction.
Why would any normal woman be attracted to another female that's stuck in a man's body?
Dude. I bet you wont let a new babe disrespect you or play games. So. No one is going to die. So. You can observe the change in dynamics when you start fvcking someone else.Why are you saying that?
I admit I have been acting soft, I just want to turn it around.
I’m not the best at this, I’m learning
Jay, don't you have more important things going on in your life? seriously? you think this little scrub is worth all this consideration when
you consider your bigger picture?
she knows she can play you.......cause she knows you are concerned. (imagine if you wasn't concerned)
why ain't you sipping whisky in a different bar?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Take your balls.I know I should, I guess since it’s been a year I’ve turned really soft into her, I have been trying to meet other chicks but we do have a close connection.
It really isn’t worth it to be honest.
She’s doesn’t have much class.
Don't be mad. Set yourself up going forward so this can't happen again.Take your balls.
Exactly what I've written. Re-read it again and after it sinks in that u hv been acting feminine then do the opposite.Why are you saying that?
I admit I have been acting soft, I just want to turn it around.
I’m not the best at this, I’m learning
Some "raw" man shyt.Start fcking other women and checking out other women in front of her. She'll soon change her tone.
This is where you go off the rails. You FEEL like you have a close connection with her.I know I should, I guess since it’s been a year I’ve turned really soft into her, I have been trying to meet other chicks but we do have a close connection.
It really isn’t worth it to be honest.
She’s doesn’t have much class.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
No calls, no texts, no nothing, nothing at all, when she comes to you asking what's up you tell her your losing interest and the relationship is boring, then you break up with her. It will crush her ego(don't tell the real reason why because that will still leave her with some power) make it look like she bores you and you can do better.Getting my mindset straight, I’m acting like she’s the last ***** in the world, taking treatment I shouldn’t .
Focusing on more important things like getting in the gym goals and hobbies.
I don’t need the girl if she’s going to be a pain in my ass, she can come to me and start showing me she wants me otherwise I’m gone.
No calls, no texts, no nothing, nothing at all, when she comes to you asking what's up you tell her your losing interest and the relationship is boring, then you break up with her. It will crush her ego(don't tell the real reason why because that will still leave her with some power) make it look like she bores you and you can do better.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.