BeExcellent
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OP, What response did you get when you sent her the photo with a hot skinnier woman?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Girlfriend not as hot on sex.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She said she felt insecure now and wished she didn’t see it
BeExcellent
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You moved in with her. It's not as easy as all that. You said this has happened a few times? She is teasing you perhaps, or she is disrespecting you. Cannot tell from your posts.
If you can't handle it you move out and go live somewhere else. You can always leave the situation. When you move out she'll get the message that there is a problem.
If you can't handle it you move out and go live somewhere else. You can always leave the situation. When you move out she'll get the message that there is a problem.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Until she’s on her knees in front of you? She’s going to have to make it up to you. All that girl stupidity has a price.
No wonder she's being disrespectful and has lost attraction.
Why would any normal woman be attracted to another female that's stuck in a man's body?
Why are you saying that?
I admit I have been acting soft, I just want to turn it around.
I’m not the best at this, I’m learning
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Dude. I bet you wont let a new babe disrespect you or play games. So. No one is going to die. So. You can observe the change in dynamics when you start fvcking someone else.
I know I should, I guess since it’s been a year I’ve turned really soft into her, I have been trying to meet other chicks but we do have a close connection.
It really isn’t worth it to be honest.
She’s doesn’t have much class.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Take your balls.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Don't be mad. Set yourself up going forward so this can't happen again.
Exactly what I've written. Re-read it again and after it sinks in that u hv been acting feminine then do the opposite.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Some "raw" man shyt.
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This is where you go off the rails. You FEEL like you have a close connection with her.
Women do not feel in the same manner that we do. This is a very important concept that is missing for you. They do not “love” the same way men do.
It is biologically impossible. This is one of the most bitter tastes of the red pills.
Their evolutionary biology makes her incapable of love as you know it.
She is completely able to drop a man emotionally and pick up another almost over night and keep on rocking.
Here, let me make it clearer for you. In fact the mare d!cks she has the less able she is to bond with any man. She had MANY d!cks before you and will have whole lot more after you.
This is a the brutal woman’s game in nature. It was designed for you to get those feelings so you can be used for resources. This stuff is down in the gutter pure survival instinct. She’s a s!ut so knock it off. Is that clearer for you?
“You’ve been in a dream world Neo.”
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Getting my mindset straight, I’m acting like she’s the last ***** in the world, taking treatment I shouldn’t .
Focusing on more important things like getting in the gym goals and hobbies.
I don’t need the girl if she’s going to be a pain in my ass, she can come to me and start showing me she wants me otherwise I’m gone.
Focusing on more important things like getting in the gym goals and hobbies.
I don’t need the girl if she’s going to be a pain in my ass, she can come to me and start showing me she wants me otherwise I’m gone.
No calls, no texts, no nothing, nothing at all, when she comes to you asking what's up you tell her your losing interest and the relationship is boring, then you break up with her. It will crush her ego(don't tell the real reason why because that will still leave her with some power) make it look like she bores you and you can do better.
Should I do this even if I still hope to be with her, She called three times today and sent me a boring snap chat, they used to be of tits...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.