BeExcellent
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OP, What response did you get when you sent her the photo with a hot skinnier woman?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girlfriend not as hot on sex.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She said she felt insecure now and wished she didn’t see it
BeExcellent
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You moved in with her. It's not as easy as all that. You said this has happened a few times? She is teasing you perhaps, or she is disrespecting you. Cannot tell from your posts.
If you can't handle it you move out and go live somewhere else. You can always leave the situation. When you move out she'll get the message that there is a problem.
If you can't handle it you move out and go live somewhere else. You can always leave the situation. When you move out she'll get the message that there is a problem.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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Until she’s on her knees in front of you? She’s going to have to make it up to you. All that girl stupidity has a price.
No wonder she's being disrespectful and has lost attraction.
Why would any normal woman be attracted to another female that's stuck in a man's body?
Why are you saying that?
I admit I have been acting soft, I just want to turn it around.
I’m not the best at this, I’m learning
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Dude. I bet you wont let a new babe disrespect you or play games. So. No one is going to die. So. You can observe the change in dynamics when you start fvcking someone else.
I know I should, I guess since it’s been a year I’ve turned really soft into her, I have been trying to meet other chicks but we do have a close connection.
It really isn’t worth it to be honest.
She’s doesn’t have much class.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Take your balls.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Don't be mad. Set yourself up going forward so this can't happen again.
Exactly what I've written. Re-read it again and after it sinks in that u hv been acting feminine then do the opposite.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Some "raw" man shyt.
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This is where you go off the rails. You FEEL like you have a close connection with her.
Women do not feel in the same manner that we do. This is a very important concept that is missing for you. They do not “love” the same way men do.
It is biologically impossible. This is one of the most bitter tastes of the red pills.
Their evolutionary biology makes her incapable of love as you know it.
She is completely able to drop a man emotionally and pick up another almost over night and keep on rocking.
Here, let me make it clearer for you. In fact the mare d!cks she has the less able she is to bond with any man. She had MANY d!cks before you and will have whole lot more after you.
This is a the brutal woman’s game in nature. It was designed for you to get those feelings so you can be used for resources. This stuff is down in the gutter pure survival instinct. She’s a s!ut so knock it off. Is that clearer for you?
“You’ve been in a dream world Neo.”
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Getting my mindset straight, I’m acting like she’s the last ***** in the world, taking treatment I shouldn’t .
Focusing on more important things like getting in the gym goals and hobbies.
I don’t need the girl if she’s going to be a pain in my ass, she can come to me and start showing me she wants me otherwise I’m gone.
Focusing on more important things like getting in the gym goals and hobbies.
I don’t need the girl if she’s going to be a pain in my ass, she can come to me and start showing me she wants me otherwise I’m gone.
No calls, no texts, no nothing, nothing at all, when she comes to you asking what's up you tell her your losing interest and the relationship is boring, then you break up with her. It will crush her ego(don't tell the real reason why because that will still leave her with some power) make it look like she bores you and you can do better.
Should I do this even if I still hope to be with her, She called three times today and sent me a boring snap chat, they used to be of tits...
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.