"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl wouldn't slow dance with me - problems?

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Long time lurker here.

I've been dating this dime for 6 weeks now. She was in my year in college but wouldn't look at me. Over the holidays I went on a course of Stevia (it works guys) and became a dime pulla. Eventually I won her.

Last night I took her to Hollywood Bowl and at the end of the night I asked the DJ to play Aerosmith "Dont wanna miss a thing". He did it but she refused to slow dance with me. She said she was embarrassed. ***** girlfriend was a *****.

Have I blown this? I had my hair styled to a blowout to please her, let her dress me in the latest BWS fashion and still get treated like a KKM.

Help me fellas.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thats not very helpful Sugarfoot. I'm feeling really emotional.

I've been eating IrishCream Ice cream and I'm putting on weight thinking of this. She's gonna feel the wrath of my angry inch.
 
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Jean Valjean

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SteviaTears said:
Thats not very helpful Sugarfoot. I'm feeling really emotional.

I've been eating IrishCream Ice cream and I'm putting on weight thinking of this. She's gonna feel the wrath of my angry inch.
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steviatears

you had to win her over etc etc

I don't think the attraction is there for her

she might have been embarrassed to be seen with you

go NC make her win you back, if she displays lackluster interest it means you are not worth it to her ... just a bud

next her then
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Fake girls, that trolls make up.
 
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I had my hair styled to a blowout to please her, let her dress me in the latest BWS fashion and still get treated like a KKM.
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Changing your style to suite her demonstrated submissiveness. If one of your male friends said :

"Dude, I only hang out with guys who wear sweater vests", would you go upstairs and find a sweater vest?

He did it but she refused to slow dance with me. She said she was embarrassed.
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Did you ASK to dance? Bad move, should have grabbed her hand and proceeded to dance floor. Thus, demonstrating a sense of adventure.
Which is very attractive.

Have I blown this?
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Probably not. Your behavior didn't seem TOO bad, made a few mistakes but we all do. You'll know if she contacts you. If not, move on and don't dwell on it.
 
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He was probably like...

"May I have this dance?"

Atleast I hope not. Next time go, "Yo let's go dance."
 
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