"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl wouldn't slow dance with me - problems?

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Long time lurker here.

I've been dating this dime for 6 weeks now. She was in my year in college but wouldn't look at me. Over the holidays I went on a course of Stevia (it works guys) and became a dime pulla. Eventually I won her.

Last night I took her to Hollywood Bowl and at the end of the night I asked the DJ to play Aerosmith "Dont wanna miss a thing". He did it but she refused to slow dance with me. She said she was embarrassed. ***** girlfriend was a *****.

Have I blown this? I had my hair styled to a blowout to please her, let her dress me in the latest BWS fashion and still get treated like a KKM.

Help me fellas.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Thats not very helpful Sugarfoot. I'm feeling really emotional.

I've been eating IrishCream Ice cream and I'm putting on weight thinking of this. She's gonna feel the wrath of my angry inch.
 
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SteviaTears said:
Thats not very helpful Sugarfoot. I'm feeling really emotional.

I've been eating IrishCream Ice cream and I'm putting on weight thinking of this. She's gonna feel the wrath of my angry inch.
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steviatears

you had to win her over etc etc

I don't think the attraction is there for her

she might have been embarrassed to be seen with you

go NC make her win you back, if she displays lackluster interest it means you are not worth it to her ... just a bud

next her then
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fake girls, that trolls make up.
 
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I had my hair styled to a blowout to please her, let her dress me in the latest BWS fashion and still get treated like a KKM.
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Changing your style to suite her demonstrated submissiveness. If one of your male friends said :

"Dude, I only hang out with guys who wear sweater vests", would you go upstairs and find a sweater vest?

He did it but she refused to slow dance with me. She said she was embarrassed.
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Did you ASK to dance? Bad move, should have grabbed her hand and proceeded to dance floor. Thus, demonstrating a sense of adventure.
Which is very attractive.

Have I blown this?
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Probably not. Your behavior didn't seem TOO bad, made a few mistakes but we all do. You'll know if she contacts you. If not, move on and don't dwell on it.
 
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He was probably like...

"May I have this dance?"

Atleast I hope not. Next time go, "Yo let's go dance."
 
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