"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Girl wouldn't slow dance with me - problems?

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Long time lurker here.

I've been dating this dime for 6 weeks now. She was in my year in college but wouldn't look at me. Over the holidays I went on a course of Stevia (it works guys) and became a dime pulla. Eventually I won her.

Last night I took her to Hollywood Bowl and at the end of the night I asked the DJ to play Aerosmith "Dont wanna miss a thing". He did it but she refused to slow dance with me. She said she was embarrassed. ***** girlfriend was a *****.

Have I blown this? I had my hair styled to a blowout to please her, let her dress me in the latest BWS fashion and still get treated like a KKM.

Help me fellas.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thats not very helpful Sugarfoot. I'm feeling really emotional.

I've been eating IrishCream Ice cream and I'm putting on weight thinking of this. She's gonna feel the wrath of my angry inch.
 
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SteviaTears said:
Thats not very helpful Sugarfoot. I'm feeling really emotional.

I've been eating IrishCream Ice cream and I'm putting on weight thinking of this. She's gonna feel the wrath of my angry inch.
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steviatears

you had to win her over etc etc

I don't think the attraction is there for her

she might have been embarrassed to be seen with you

go NC make her win you back, if she displays lackluster interest it means you are not worth it to her ... just a bud

next her then
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Fake girls, that trolls make up.
 
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I had my hair styled to a blowout to please her, let her dress me in the latest BWS fashion and still get treated like a KKM.
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Changing your style to suite her demonstrated submissiveness. If one of your male friends said :

"Dude, I only hang out with guys who wear sweater vests", would you go upstairs and find a sweater vest?

He did it but she refused to slow dance with me. She said she was embarrassed.
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Did you ASK to dance? Bad move, should have grabbed her hand and proceeded to dance floor. Thus, demonstrating a sense of adventure.
Which is very attractive.

Have I blown this?
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Probably not. Your behavior didn't seem TOO bad, made a few mistakes but we all do. You'll know if she contacts you. If not, move on and don't dwell on it.
 
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He was probably like...

"May I have this dance?"

Atleast I hope not. Next time go, "Yo let's go dance."
 
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