Girl wants to be friends

[Mike32ct]

Chicks generally don’t lie when they give you the LJBF speech. That’s one area that you can take at face value.

 

[backseatjuan]

Chicks generally don’t lie when they give you the LJBF speech. That’s one area that you can take at face value.

What if she said I'm probably not what you looking for, and left?

 

[Tilex]

Forget about her and move on.
This is completely unwinnable for you.

If she won't even let you get to first base, she's definitely NOT interested!
You're in the creeper zone if that tells you anything.

 

[Robert28]

All you had to text back was “fvck your friendship”. You don’t need it, you damn sure don’t want it. Now consider her pretty much dead from here on out. If she tries to talk to you, walk away. Say absolutely nothing and just walk away. If she texts or calls you then don’t respond or better yet just block her number so you won’t be tempted to talk to her. Same with social media. Remember, to hell with her friendship or any girls friendship for that matter!

 

[Spaz]

Chicks generally don’t lie when they give you the LJBF speech. That’s one area that you can take at face value.

Just reminiscing.

I had this one chick who I used to sleep around, after spending the night over, she'll usually give me the whole LJBF speech and much to my amusement, she'll does it the next week and for the next couple of months.

I was like 19 then and she was 24 plus, just fresh out of university and working as a management trainee in Yoahan.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

20YO girl. Holding hands, a lot of touching, pulled her close to me, a lot of laughs, I teased her, etc. When I went for the kiss she backed off, I did'nt care, I continued talking and showed her a couple of places. After 2 hours she said she had to go.
When we texted. she says, I'm very nice but she just wants to be friends and it's not going to work between us.

What happened? Should I be her friend or should I try another tactic?

Friends?

Either fwb or next her, and go get her friends.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Forget about her and move on.
This is completely unwinnable for you.

If she won't even let you get to first base, she's definitely NOT interested!
You're in the creeper zone if that tells you anything.

+1

I'd have taken my ****kkk out smashed or kicked her out + finished to pornhub. It makes for a funny story. Better after you send her the troll meme.

 

[Mazer]

Move on. This one is most likely dead. Don’t ever text her. If she ever becomes interested, she will reach out and then you set up a date but don’t think by you ignoring her she will become interested and come back because that only happens after you have banged her a few times.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Girls say one thing and means another thing. So I would not trust what she says.

She is TELLING you she's not sexually attracted to you but sees you as a platonic friend. Don't over think or over analyze it. Is she the last girl on planet Earth? Be high value, not an AFC, and move on. 99.99% chance you'll never turn her around. This is basic DJ 101 stuff.

Dash's 2 Rules for Success with Women:

1- Never, ever "chase" women with low interest.
2- See Rule #1

Good luck.

 

[Mike32ct]

What if she said I'm probably not what you looking for, and left?

That’s a different scenario.

That could be a chick who wants a relationship and senses you just want a quick b-ang.

Would need more context to know for sure.

 

[Robert28]

Learn how to ghost women. It’s the best trick you can use, I love doing it. I don’t like to have long drawn out chats trying to convince them why they should see me more than as a friend. Waste of time. Just ghost them out of nowhere. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them or anything, you don’t owe them ****.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Tell her you can't be friends with a girl you want to make orgasm

 

[escaleraroyal]

Two to three hours is a long time for a date, especially if you haven't at least kissed her previously.

Take her at her word, if you respond at all say "I was thinking the same thing." Then take out and be seen with other girls - not as a lure but to have fun. MAYBE she comes back around but who cares...so many fish in the sea my friend.

whats wrong with 2-3 h date if it's going well.

 

[escaleraroyal]

Learn how to ghost women. It’s the best trick you can use, I love doing it. I don’t like to have long drawn out chats trying to convince them why they should see me more than as a friend. Waste of time. Just ghost them out of nowhere. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them or anything, you don’t owe them ****.

Sometimes girls text back after a few months and thats how i bang them.

 

[Trump]

20YO girl. Holding hands, a lot of touching, pulled her close to me, a lot of laughs, I teased her, etc. When I went for the kiss she backed off, I did'nt care,

TWENTY YEAR OLD GIRL doesn’t let you put your tongue down her throat, and you don’t care?

Come on bro who are you trying to fool.

I continued talking and showed her a couple of places. After 2 hours she said she had to go.

What places did you show her?

If she rejected your kiss, you have should ended the date shortly afterwards. Don’t be hanging out with her for another 120 minutes hoping she will magically see the light.

What if you had another girl to kiss in the next hour? What would you do?

When we texted. she says, I'm very nice but she just wants to be friends and it's not going to work between us.

What happened?

How can we know that? She didn’t let you kiss her so she obviously wasn’t feeling you the way you were feeling her.

Should I be her friend or should I try another tactic?

Sure, you can be her friend.

she says, “I'm very nice but she just wants to be friends and it's not going to work between us.”

“Splendid. Well, don’t forget to write.”

 

[Robert28]

Sometimes girls text back after a few months and thats how i bang them.

“Let’s just be friends” or ANY variation of that gets you blocked with me. One chance, per lifetime, no exceptions. That should be your motto with women.

 

[RickTheToad]

NEXT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[escaleraroyal]

Ok. I Deleted her. Time to look for more chicks.

 

[escaleraroyal]

Had a new date with another girl today. Just wanna quickly write it down before I forget.
I did what most guys were saying here. Don't invest too much, don't try too hard and don't be needy.

On the date, a lot of touching, didn't try to go for the kiss even though i was feeling it, i didn't not try to pull her close to me, built tension (Did not talk most time and let her start the convo). After 1.5 hours. She says she felt cold and wanted to go home. I also told her we should watch a movie together sometime, She said OK (But you never know, girls say something and mean another thing), I asked her two times to verify she wanted to really watch a movie. I think the frame is set up better this time. I did not do much qualification though, i hope it doesn't come back to bite me in the butt.

This year has been a dried year for me. I need to fclose asap.

 

[escaleraroyal]

Had a new date with another girl today. Just wanna quickly write it down before I forget.
I did what most guys were saying here. Don't invest too much, don't try too hard and don't be needy.

On the date, a lot of touching, didn't try to go for the kiss even though i was feeling it, i didn't not try to pull her close to me, built tension (Did not talk most time and let her start the convo). After 1.5 hours. She says she felt cold and wanted to go home. I also told her we should watch a movie together sometime, She said OK (But you never know, girls say something and mean another thing), I asked her two times to verify she wanted to really watch a movie. I think the frame is set up better this time. I did not do much qualification though, i hope it doesn't come back to bite me in the butt.

This year has been a dried year for me. I need to fclose asap.

New girl told me he has Boyfriend. Maybe I was too pushy again.