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Tilex

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Forget about her and move on.
This is completely unwinnable for you.

If she won't even let you get to first base, she's definitely NOT interested!
You're in the creeper zone if that tells you anything.
 

samspade

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If you are with a girl on a date for 2-3 hours how would you not reveal too much about yourself? if she keeps asking a few times?
Two to three hours is a long time for a date, especially if you haven't at least kissed her previously.

Take her at her word, if you respond at all say "I was thinking the same thing." Then take out and be seen with other girls - not as a lure but to have fun. MAYBE she comes back around but who cares...so many fish in the sea my friend.
 

Robert28

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All you had to text back was “fvck your friendship”. You don’t need it, you damn sure don’t want it. Now consider her pretty much dead from here on out. If she tries to talk to you, walk away. Say absolutely nothing and just walk away. If she texts or calls you then don’t respond or better yet just block her number so you won’t be tempted to talk to her. Same with social media. Remember, to hell with her friendship or any girls friendship for that matter!
 

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Chicks generally don’t lie when they give you the LJBF speech. That’s one area that you can take at face value.
Just reminiscing.

I had this one chick who I used to sleep around, after spending the night over, she'll usually give me the whole LJBF speech and much to my amusement, she'll does it the next week and for the next couple of months.

I was like 19 then and she was 24 plus, just fresh out of university and working as a management trainee in Yoahan.
 

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20YO girl. Holding hands, a lot of touching, pulled her close to me, a lot of laughs, I teased her, etc. When I went for the kiss she backed off, I did'nt care, I continued talking and showed her a couple of places. After 2 hours she said she had to go.
When we texted. she says, I'm very nice but she just wants to be friends and it's not going to work between us.

What happened? Should I be her friend or should I try another tactic?
Friends?

Either fwb or next her, and go get her friends.
 

DEEZEDBRAH

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Forget about her and move on.
This is completely unwinnable for you.

If she won't even let you get to first base, she's definitely NOT interested!
You're in the creeper zone if that tells you anything.
+1

I'd have taken my ****kkk out smashed or kicked her out + finished to pornhub. It makes for a funny story. Better after you send her the troll meme.
 

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Move on. This one is most likely dead. Don’t ever text her. If she ever becomes interested, she will reach out and then you set up a date but don’t think by you ignoring her she will become interested and come back because that only happens after you have banged her a few times.
 

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Girls say one thing and means another thing. So I would not trust what she says.
She is TELLING you she's not sexually attracted to you but sees you as a platonic friend. Don't over think or over analyze it. Is she the last girl on planet Earth? Be high value, not an AFC, and move on. 99.99% chance you'll never turn her around. This is basic DJ 101 stuff.

Dash's 2 Rules for Success with Women:

1- Never, ever "chase" women with low interest.
2- See Rule #1

Good luck.
 

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Learn how to ghost women. It’s the best trick you can use, I love doing it. I don’t like to have long drawn out chats trying to convince them why they should see me more than as a friend. Waste of time. Just ghost them out of nowhere. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them or anything, you don’t owe them ****.
 

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Two to three hours is a long time for a date, especially if you haven't at least kissed her previously.

Take her at her word, if you respond at all say "I was thinking the same thing." Then take out and be seen with other girls - not as a lure but to have fun. MAYBE she comes back around but who cares...so many fish in the sea my friend.
whats wrong with 2-3 h date if it's going well.
 

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Learn how to ghost women. It’s the best trick you can use, I love doing it. I don’t like to have long drawn out chats trying to convince them why they should see me more than as a friend. Waste of time. Just ghost them out of nowhere. Doesn’t matter how long you’ve known them or anything, you don’t owe them ****.
Sometimes girls text back after a few months and thats how i bang them.
 

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20YO girl. Holding hands, a lot of touching, pulled her close to me, a lot of laughs, I teased her, etc. When I went for the kiss she backed off, I did'nt care,
TWENTY YEAR OLD GIRL doesn’t let you put your tongue down her throat, and you don’t care?

Come on bro who are you trying to fool.

I continued talking and showed her a couple of places. After 2 hours she said she had to go.
What places did you show her?

If she rejected your kiss, you have should ended the date shortly afterwards. Don’t be hanging out with her for another 120 minutes hoping she will magically see the light.

What if you had another girl to kiss in the next hour? What would you do?

When we texted. she says, I'm very nice but she just wants to be friends and it's not going to work between us.

What happened?
How can we know that? She didn’t let you kiss her so she obviously wasn’t feeling you the way you were feeling her.

Should I be her friend or should I try another tactic?
Sure, you can be her friend.

she says, “I'm very nice but she just wants to be friends and it's not going to work between us.”

“Splendid. Well, don’t forget to write.”
 

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whats wrong with 2-3 h date if it's going well.
If it's going well, after 2-3 hours you should be at least at second or third base. What's wrong is you need to leave her wanting more. But the good thing is you went for the kiss, I just think it should have been earlier and the date shorter.
 

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Sometimes girls text back after a few months and thats how i bang them.
“Let’s just be friends” or ANY variation of that gets you blocked with me. One chance, per lifetime, no exceptions. That should be your motto with women.
 
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