Emperiorjack
Don Juan
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its now 7:08pm. What should I do should I call her and tell her she better sharpin up if she wants to be with me. Or just ignore it.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Hmmm. I see your point but she did instant message me today around 12pm saying "Good Afternoon!" Im thinking she's just too scared to call me up.If she were interested, she would call. No, she wasn't attacked by a pack of wolves, and yes, your phone is still working no need to call Sprint. Just get busy my man. [/B]
Cool Ill go with this route sounds pretty good.Originally posted by shark
forget it, when she does call or when you see her..act bigger and better. don't give her the time of day for that first interaction..then wait a few days to either have her contact you or u can contact her again and kinda start overr. you'll be fine
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Either that or you are too scared to go out and have some fun yourself because you may miss her call. She's only several hours late...Originally posted by Emperiorjack
Hmmm. I see your point but she did instant message me today around 12pm saying "Good Afternoon!" Im thinking she's just too scared to call me up.
or she may have had you as a back up plan in case her initial plans didn't work out. Harsh yes, but true in most cases.Originally posted by Emperiorjack
Im thinking she's just too scared to call me up.
I did/do this all the time, i usually schedule 2 dates, one that I know will go through and one that i really wanted to go on.Originally posted by Bradshaw
or she may have had you as a back up plan in case her initial plans didn't work out. Harsh yes, but true in most cases.
Lesson: always have a back up plan.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I did/do this all the time, i usually schedule 2 dates, one that I know will go through and one that i really wanted to go on.Originally posted by Bradshaw
or she may have had you as a back up plan in case her initial plans didn't work out. Harsh yes, but true in most cases.
Lesson: always have a back up plan.
Keep tellin yourself that. :yawn:Originally posted by Emperiorjack
Im thinking she's just too scared to call me up.
No, if she was that specific, something must have come up. Don't get worried about it, but assume the best, make sure that you have something important to do adn then either catch up with her later or move on to the next chick.Originally posted by Plain & Simple
forget it kid, she played you.
Dont call her neither if u gonna do that, wait a week or so, and dont mention nothing to her , just try to set a date up if she refuses, automaticly 100% forget her
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
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