"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
girl slaps you
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Conscious
Don Juan
Patrick124
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I'd call her a b!tch or cvnt or a fvcking wh0re[fully-well knowing another slap si coming, and grab her wrist halfway].
Then just smile at her and turn my back.
InsidiousNstinct
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If it was to happen I would make some remark to her to show that it didn't phase me.
Was last night THAT bad...? You told me I was the best you ever had...
Then punch her in the face and say....." And thats how I felt when your teeth was racking my d*ck!"
lol...don't do the above. Id tell your friend to confront her about it. Was it like a play slap or a "kiss my a$$ slap"
A girl just slapping someone for no reason sounds like bad trouble. I'd tell your friend to stay away from her. Chicks that unpredictiable should be locked up.
Reminds me of what happened yesterday which I might post about...
oh ya your such a don juan
seriously dude are you a man or a freiking vagina.Grow some balls.
If a chick slaps you, just ignore her, be like thanks i appreciate it, or something like that. Just play it off. If you make a big deal out of it, it will be a big deal. If you just ignore it, it will go away.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Centy
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What I did was to just calmy look at her and say "wtf was that for!??" I didnt call her bad words, I didnt go ballistic, I just stared at her and said "well!?". And she just started to sob. I turned my back and walked away.
my advice would be to take it as a gentleman. Dont slap her back, dont say **** to her. Just hold your ground and ask wtf she did that.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
If a lady disrespects me for no reason, why the **** should she get any respect from me?
I'm sorry, I have balls to actually do something in that situation other than stand there and take it.
If a girl starts cussing you out infront all your friends you gonna "grow a pair" and take it. Good for you man
She might be a lady, but shes a person first. People have to earn my respect. Slapping me is a oneway-ticket to my badside.
And as far as I've gone in life, a woman has never taken a slap at me. I'm just to lovable as is
hahYa, after reading centy's reply i realized that is the correct thing to do.
Mine would work as well, it would just confuse the hell out of her. But centy's puts the responsibility on her.
Pat, i got nothing against you, but you have much to learn young grasshopper
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I'd call her a b!tch or cvnt or a fvcking wh0re[fully-well knowing another slap si coming, and grab her wrist halfway].
Then just smile at her and turn my back.
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ShizamDaMan
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If females want to be treated equally, then they need to follow the rules like everyone else. If a man slapped you in the face you could either sue him for assault or beat his ass into the ground in self defense.
AFK Protector
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Me: Hot diddly damn, I think she likes me.
PuertoRican_Lover
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.