escaleraroyal
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Girl sh1t tested me, didn't like my answers, gets annoyed/upset and walks away.
What would you have done?
What would you have done?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girl sh1t tested me and walks away
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That would depend on what the sh|t test was and your response …
Opinions and advice need a starting factual basis.
Some details dude? Give is something.
You might as well have said "talked to a girl. Something happened. What would you guys have done?"
escaleraroyal
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I can't remember. But let's just say it's an example. Just imagined you answered her sh1t test a few times and she gets upset. What would you do?
Igetit!
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Go and try to date somebody else.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
oldmanofthesea
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Hard to say without details, because there are many ways to respond to a **** test and maybe you are over-reacting or responding the wrong way. But assuming you aren't, then it sounds like she is really dominant and is trying to have a power struggle with you or she doubts you so keeps testing. Or she could just be a brat, plain and simple. Assuming you are handling it correctly, then it doesn't paint a good picture of her. I'm learning that with girls like this, you have to adopt an attitude of "get with the program or get lost" and you must truly be willing to walk away and never look back. It's like they crave dominance, yet they want to dominate you. If you let them dominate you, they are happy but have no sexual interest in you so they move on or friend zone you. On the other hand, if you dominate them, they get really frustrated yet turned on. Definitely not relationship material but good practice, and good for a short intense fling.
taiyuu_otoko
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1) Build a time machine
2) Go back and revisit the event
3) Remember what she said and how you replied. Write down both.
4) Go back in time again to before the event
5) Try another response. Write it down, including her response.
6) Repeat step 4 until you achieve success.
7) Come back in your time machine to just before you made this original post.
8) Write a different original post, describing how you successfully overcame and sh*t test and got laid.
Hmm. The original post remains unchanged, thereby proving the quantum multiverse theory based on Schrodinger's probability functions. Interesting.
2) Go back and revisit the event
3) Remember what she said and how you replied. Write down both.
4) Go back in time again to before the event
5) Try another response. Write it down, including her response.
6) Repeat step 4 until you achieve success.
7) Come back in your time machine to just before you made this original post.
8) Write a different original post, describing how you successfully overcame and sh*t test and got laid.
Hmm. The original post remains unchanged, thereby proving the quantum multiverse theory based on Schrodinger's probability functions. Interesting.
