EyeBRollin
Master Don Juan
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She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
His advice was that a barely average looking 35 year old single mother with baby daddy issues thinking she deserves a high value man is delusional as fvck, needs therapy, and should consider seeking an average man. Otherwise she will be single for the rest of her life.Her looking at her phone signals defeat and uncomfortableness.
I thought he could've done a better job offering advice or solutions but couldn't tell if she was letting him do that. She did ask at one point but he didn't easily offer up anything at that point either.
Ok I can see that now looking at it again without work distractions.His advice was that a barely average looking 35 year old single mother with baby daddy issues thinking she deserves a high value man is delusional as fvck, needs therapy, and should consider seeking an average man. Otherwise she will be single for the rest of her life.
Sounds spot on to me.
I was reading this and it got me interested...Man EyeBrollin, why you trying to be be like MatureDJ? LOL j/k
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm not sure. There are plenty of rich men who are good with business, careers etc but clueless with women/relationships.Man EyeBrollin, why you trying to be be like MatureDJ? LOL j/k
Dominating frame on a low self esteem woman looking for help. Damn he put her in her place and she took it, especially for being a sista! LOL
Her looking at her phone signals defeat and uncomfortableness.
I thought he could've done a better job offering advice or solutions but couldn't tell if she was letting him do that. She did ask at one point but he didn't easily offer up anything at that point either.
Nothing but hoes being hoes if they are looking at $ figures as the main criteria. Only dumb overnight lottery winners will fall for those types. Otherwise regular rich dudes will see right through them and just use and abuse as usual.
There are and I agree but most of those men have already been taken advantage of and know better. But there is a sucker every minute so there could always be exceptions...I'm not sure. There are plenty of rich men who are good with business, careers etc but clueless with women/relationships.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I want that spinny thing on his desk, thats cool
He should have sold her some cat food.His advice was that a barely average looking 35 year old single mother with baby daddy issues thinking she deserves a high value man is delusional as fvck, needs therapy, and should consider seeking an average man. Otherwise she will be single for the rest of her life.
Sounds spot on to me.