EyeBRollin
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Girl Refuses to Accept Reality (Wants a Six Figure Man)
- Thread starter EyeBRollin
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Man EyeBrollin, why you trying to be be like MatureDJ? LOL j/k
Dominating frame on a low self esteem woman looking for help. Damn he put her in her place and she took it, especially for being a sista! LOL
Her looking at her phone signals defeat and uncomfortableness.
I thought he could've done a better job offering advice or solutions but couldn't tell if she was letting him do that. She did ask at one point but he didn't easily offer up anything at that point either.
Nothing but hoes being hoes if they are looking at $ figures as the main criteria. Only dumb overnight lottery winners will fall for those types. Otherwise regular rich dudes will see right through them and just use and abuse as usual.
Dominating frame on a low self esteem woman looking for help. Damn he put her in her place and she took it, especially for being a sista! LOL
Her looking at her phone signals defeat and uncomfortableness.
I thought he could've done a better job offering advice or solutions but couldn't tell if she was letting him do that. She did ask at one point but he didn't easily offer up anything at that point either.
Nothing but hoes being hoes if they are looking at $ figures as the main criteria. Only dumb overnight lottery winners will fall for those types. Otherwise regular rich dudes will see right through them and just use and abuse as usual.
EyeBRollin
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His advice was that a barely average looking 35 year old single mother with baby daddy issues thinking she deserves a high value man is delusional as fvck, needs therapy, and should consider seeking an average man. Otherwise she will be single for the rest of her life.
Sounds spot on to me.
Ok I can see that now looking at it again without work distractions.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I was reading this and it got me interested...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I'm not sure. There are plenty of rich men who are good with business, careers etc but clueless with women/relationships.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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Her saying he is mean is an outright denial of what he is saying... She is in denial, a denial fueled by thirsty social media men.
Their mentality is only a small part of the problem, the bigger part is what keeps her in denial, you have to face truth in denial at some point, unless you can keep the denial alive.
She wants to remain in denial, not find a man.
Their mentality is only a small part of the problem, the bigger part is what keeps her in denial, you have to face truth in denial at some point, unless you can keep the denial alive.
She wants to remain in denial, not find a man.
KindredSpiritzz
Senior Don Juan
I want that spinny thing on his desk, thats cool
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MatureDJ
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
Master Don Juan
Hoes mad.
bat soup
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He should have sold her some cat food.
He's right: if she wanted to hook a rich guy, she should have done it when she was 20.
Now she will be lucky if she finds a guy that doesn't live in his car.