EyeBRollin
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl Refuses to Accept Reality (Wants a Six Figure Man)
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Man EyeBrollin, why you trying to be be like MatureDJ? LOL j/k
Dominating frame on a low self esteem woman looking for help. Damn he put her in her place and she took it, especially for being a sista! LOL
Her looking at her phone signals defeat and uncomfortableness.
I thought he could've done a better job offering advice or solutions but couldn't tell if she was letting him do that. She did ask at one point but he didn't easily offer up anything at that point either.
Nothing but hoes being hoes if they are looking at $ figures as the main criteria. Only dumb overnight lottery winners will fall for those types. Otherwise regular rich dudes will see right through them and just use and abuse as usual.
Dominating frame on a low self esteem woman looking for help. Damn he put her in her place and she took it, especially for being a sista! LOL
Her looking at her phone signals defeat and uncomfortableness.
I thought he could've done a better job offering advice or solutions but couldn't tell if she was letting him do that. She did ask at one point but he didn't easily offer up anything at that point either.
Nothing but hoes being hoes if they are looking at $ figures as the main criteria. Only dumb overnight lottery winners will fall for those types. Otherwise regular rich dudes will see right through them and just use and abuse as usual.
EyeBRollin
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His advice was that a barely average looking 35 year old single mother with baby daddy issues thinking she deserves a high value man is delusional as fvck, needs therapy, and should consider seeking an average man. Otherwise she will be single for the rest of her life.
Sounds spot on to me.
Ok I can see that now looking at it again without work distractions.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
I was reading this and it got me interested...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I'm not sure. There are plenty of rich men who are good with business, careers etc but clueless with women/relationships.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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Her saying he is mean is an outright denial of what he is saying... She is in denial, a denial fueled by thirsty social media men.
Their mentality is only a small part of the problem, the bigger part is what keeps her in denial, you have to face truth in denial at some point, unless you can keep the denial alive.
She wants to remain in denial, not find a man.
Their mentality is only a small part of the problem, the bigger part is what keeps her in denial, you have to face truth in denial at some point, unless you can keep the denial alive.
She wants to remain in denial, not find a man.
KindredSpiritzz
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I want that spinny thing on his desk, thats cool
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
MatureDJ
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ImTheDoubleGreatest!
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Hoes mad.
bat soup
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He should have sold her some cat food.
He's right: if she wanted to hook a rich guy, she should have done it when she was 20.
Now she will be lucky if she finds a guy that doesn't live in his car.