"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Girl Refuses to Accept Reality (Wants a Six Figure Man)

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Lookatu

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Man EyeBrollin, why you trying to be be like MatureDJ? LOL j/k

Dominating frame on a low self esteem woman looking for help. Damn he put her in her place and she took it, especially for being a sista! LOL

Her looking at her phone signals defeat and uncomfortableness.

I thought he could've done a better job offering advice or solutions but couldn't tell if she was letting him do that. She did ask at one point but he didn't easily offer up anything at that point either.

Nothing but hoes being hoes if they are looking at $ figures as the main criteria. Only dumb overnight lottery winners will fall for those types. Otherwise regular rich dudes will see right through them and just use and abuse as usual.
 

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Her looking at her phone signals defeat and uncomfortableness.

I thought he could've done a better job offering advice or solutions but couldn't tell if she was letting him do that. She did ask at one point but he didn't easily offer up anything at that point either.
His advice was that a barely average looking 35 year old single mother with baby daddy issues thinking she deserves a high value man is delusional as fvck, needs therapy, and should consider seeking an average man. Otherwise she will be single for the rest of her life.

Sounds spot on to me.
 

Lookatu

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His advice was that a barely average looking 35 year old single mother with baby daddy issues thinking she deserves a high value man is delusional as fvck, needs therapy, and should consider seeking an average man. Otherwise she will be single for the rest of her life.

Sounds spot on to me.
Ok I can see that now looking at it again without work distractions.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Man EyeBrollin, why you trying to be be like MatureDJ? LOL j/k

Dominating frame on a low self esteem woman looking for help. Damn he put her in her place and she took it, especially for being a sista! LOL

Her looking at her phone signals defeat and uncomfortableness.

I thought he could've done a better job offering advice or solutions but couldn't tell if she was letting him do that. She did ask at one point but he didn't easily offer up anything at that point either.

Nothing but hoes being hoes if they are looking at $ figures as the main criteria. Only dumb overnight lottery winners will fall for those types. Otherwise regular rich dudes will see right through them and just use and abuse as usual.
I'm not sure. There are plenty of rich men who are good with business, careers etc but clueless with women/relationships.
 

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Her saying he is mean is an outright denial of what he is saying... She is in denial, a denial fueled by thirsty social media men.

Their mentality is only a small part of the problem, the bigger part is what keeps her in denial, you have to face truth in denial at some point, unless you can keep the denial alive.

She wants to remain in denial, not find a man.
 

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Lol bet she balled her eyes out after this.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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His advice was that a barely average looking 35 year old single mother with baby daddy issues thinking she deserves a high value man is delusional as fvck, needs therapy, and should consider seeking an average man. Otherwise she will be single for the rest of her life.

Sounds spot on to me.
He should have sold her some cat food.

He's right: if she wanted to hook a rich guy, she should have done it when she was 20.

Now she will be lucky if she finds a guy that doesn't live in his car.
 
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