SheepDogOne
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My frame so far: Overconfident jerk, teasing etc. So looking for a good response to her message that doesn't appear to keen. Or is this a beta trap? Help.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Girl I've been chasing turns tables and asks me out - don't want loose frame
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Who Dares Win
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Provide more info pls, like age and time you know each other, where and how.
SheepDogOne
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I'm 44, she's early 30's (HB7). Met 3x times socially with friends over past two weeks. Last time we met up one of her friends was playing very heavy ****blocker.. But when I can get her away from her friends everything going well at building attraction, she gives very strong IOI's... 4 days after that she sends message on FB saying "Hey come next wed to forro at ipanema" (brazilian dance night at local club)...Who Dares Win said:
Gro0ver
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How about just saying "sure, see you there".
You don't need to do the whole ****y/funny thing all the time, it's good to show a genuine side as well. Sometimes sosuave/PUA crap can get in your head and make you think you need to be an actor all the time to keep women interested. You've already showed her that you're strong and valuable and her IL is obviously high, no need to overdo it, she's not gonna do a 180 if she figures out you've got a nice side to you as well.
Your next concern is charming her friends and getting them onside. This might require a slightly different approach.
You don't need to do the whole ****y/funny thing all the time, it's good to show a genuine side as well. Sometimes sosuave/PUA crap can get in your head and make you think you need to be an actor all the time to keep women interested. You've already showed her that you're strong and valuable and her IL is obviously high, no need to overdo it, she's not gonna do a 180 if she figures out you've got a nice side to you as well.
Your next concern is charming her friends and getting them onside. This might require a slightly different approach.
SheepDogOne
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Good advice, thanks. Will give it a shot.Gro0ver said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.