SheepDogOne
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My frame so far: Overconfident jerk, teasing etc. So looking for a good response to her message that doesn't appear to keen. Or is this a beta trap? Help.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Girl I've been chasing turns tables and asks me out - don't want loose frame
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Who Dares Win
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Provide more info pls, like age and time you know each other, where and how.
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I'm 44, she's early 30's (HB7). Met 3x times socially with friends over past two weeks. Last time we met up one of her friends was playing very heavy ****blocker.. But when I can get her away from her friends everything going well at building attraction, she gives very strong IOI's... 4 days after that she sends message on FB saying "Hey come next wed to forro at ipanema" (brazilian dance night at local club)...Who Dares Win said:
Gro0ver
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How about just saying "sure, see you there".
You don't need to do the whole ****y/funny thing all the time, it's good to show a genuine side as well. Sometimes sosuave/PUA crap can get in your head and make you think you need to be an actor all the time to keep women interested. You've already showed her that you're strong and valuable and her IL is obviously high, no need to overdo it, she's not gonna do a 180 if she figures out you've got a nice side to you as well.
Your next concern is charming her friends and getting them onside. This might require a slightly different approach.
You don't need to do the whole ****y/funny thing all the time, it's good to show a genuine side as well. Sometimes sosuave/PUA crap can get in your head and make you think you need to be an actor all the time to keep women interested. You've already showed her that you're strong and valuable and her IL is obviously high, no need to overdo it, she's not gonna do a 180 if she figures out you've got a nice side to you as well.
Your next concern is charming her friends and getting them onside. This might require a slightly different approach.
SheepDogOne
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Good advice, thanks. Will give it a shot.Gro0ver said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.