MyOwnKryptonite
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Hey whats wrong with knocking boots with a girl that will have no objection to having a sandwich or two or three after sex?.......
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Girl is 'full figured'
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
He has standards but I think they are along the lines of must breathe air... most of the time.
He's like 38 and he met the old granny girl at a tradeshow (we work together). We always bust on him about it because the day after she came over to our booth and was totally diggin him and he couldn't save face.
But yea - that was more of a last call hook up for him.
He's like 38 and he met the old granny girl at a tradeshow (we work together). We always bust on him about it because the day after she came over to our booth and was totally diggin him and he couldn't save face.
But yea - that was more of a last call hook up for him.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
DJF or John said:
Props for not being shallow."You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
WisdomofaMadman
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Why do fat chicks give the best BJs?
Because they HAVE TO!
Do what you want. If she's 'full figured' but you don't mind, go for it. If she's too unattractive (for whatever reason) and repulses you, don't. Maybe she has a good personality. Maybe she's a kinky freak. Maybe she just has a sexy voice. The deciding factor shouldn't be whether some guys on a forum think you should fu(k her, it should be whether you want to.
From my own experience (and not my proudest moments), though, there is a BIG difference between a fat chick that you meet online or around town that wants sex, versus taking a fat chick home at the end of a night of heavy drinking. Beer goggles, in my experience, cause nothing but shame and regret.
Because they HAVE TO!
Do what you want. If she's 'full figured' but you don't mind, go for it. If she's too unattractive (for whatever reason) and repulses you, don't. Maybe she has a good personality. Maybe she's a kinky freak. Maybe she just has a sexy voice. The deciding factor shouldn't be whether some guys on a forum think you should fu(k her, it should be whether you want to.
From my own experience (and not my proudest moments), though, there is a BIG difference between a fat chick that you meet online or around town that wants sex, versus taking a fat chick home at the end of a night of heavy drinking. Beer goggles, in my experience, cause nothing but shame and regret.
Hydroblunt
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I will second and third that. The secret is that the man-*****s treat all those girls the same, it's just ass. You gotta have the stomach for that but there is a lot to learn from how they operate. I only wish I had that in me.Mind_Body_Soul said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
True. True...WisdomofaMadman said:
bigjohnson
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Yeah I get that a lot. *Queue rimshot*Hydroblunt said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ive ****ed chubby girls, but never fat
the chubby girls i ****ed i wouldnt even consider bad, except for the fact they aren't skinny.
I ****ed a woman twice my ages as well, she said she was 40, but i thought she looked more like 50 hahahahahaahha
very drunken night that was, i ran bare foot from her house after she'd fallen to slepp haha
the chubby girls i ****ed i wouldnt even consider bad, except for the fact they aren't skinny.
I ****ed a woman twice my ages as well, she said she was 40, but i thought she looked more like 50 hahahahahaahha
very drunken night that was, i ran bare foot from her house after she'd fallen to slepp haha