MyOwnKryptonite
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Hey whats wrong with knocking boots with a girl that will have no objection to having a sandwich or two or three after sex?.......
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girl is 'full figured'
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Mind_Body_Soul
Senior Don Juan
He has standards but I think they are along the lines of must breathe air... most of the time.
He's like 38 and he met the old granny girl at a tradeshow (we work together). We always bust on him about it because the day after she came over to our booth and was totally diggin him and he couldn't save face.
But yea - that was more of a last call hook up for him.
He's like 38 and he met the old granny girl at a tradeshow (we work together). We always bust on him about it because the day after she came over to our booth and was totally diggin him and he couldn't save face.
But yea - that was more of a last call hook up for him.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
DJF or John said:
Props for not being shallow."Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WisdomofaMadman
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Why do fat chicks give the best BJs?
Because they HAVE TO!
Do what you want. If she's 'full figured' but you don't mind, go for it. If she's too unattractive (for whatever reason) and repulses you, don't. Maybe she has a good personality. Maybe she's a kinky freak. Maybe she just has a sexy voice. The deciding factor shouldn't be whether some guys on a forum think you should fu(k her, it should be whether you want to.
From my own experience (and not my proudest moments), though, there is a BIG difference between a fat chick that you meet online or around town that wants sex, versus taking a fat chick home at the end of a night of heavy drinking. Beer goggles, in my experience, cause nothing but shame and regret.
Because they HAVE TO!
Do what you want. If she's 'full figured' but you don't mind, go for it. If she's too unattractive (for whatever reason) and repulses you, don't. Maybe she has a good personality. Maybe she's a kinky freak. Maybe she just has a sexy voice. The deciding factor shouldn't be whether some guys on a forum think you should fu(k her, it should be whether you want to.
From my own experience (and not my proudest moments), though, there is a BIG difference between a fat chick that you meet online or around town that wants sex, versus taking a fat chick home at the end of a night of heavy drinking. Beer goggles, in my experience, cause nothing but shame and regret.
Hydroblunt
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I will second and third that. The secret is that the man-*****s treat all those girls the same, it's just ass. You gotta have the stomach for that but there is a lot to learn from how they operate. I only wish I had that in me.Mind_Body_Soul said:
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
True. True...WisdomofaMadman said:
bigjohnson
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Yeah I get that a lot. *Queue rimshot*Hydroblunt said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ive ****ed chubby girls, but never fat
the chubby girls i ****ed i wouldnt even consider bad, except for the fact they aren't skinny.
I ****ed a woman twice my ages as well, she said she was 40, but i thought she looked more like 50 hahahahahaahha
very drunken night that was, i ran bare foot from her house after she'd fallen to slepp haha
the chubby girls i ****ed i wouldnt even consider bad, except for the fact they aren't skinny.
I ****ed a woman twice my ages as well, she said she was 40, but i thought she looked more like 50 hahahahahaahha
very drunken night that was, i ran bare foot from her house after she'd fallen to slepp haha