"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Girl I picked up from club never wants to hang out

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Emperiorjack

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I picked up a girl at a club and twice I have ask her to come to a party and she always says her and her friend is hanging out. What do I do?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SickAgain

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Dude get a clue. She doesn't want to hang out. Stop wasting your time and your dignity (or whatevers left of it).
 
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3countriesPlan

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If she wont come out, how the fvck are you supposed to close her? Cool your jets.. maybe you'll see her at the club in the future.. maybe not.. anyways when she is cool you need to be cooler..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kevin Feng

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Ok,

You need to move on, it's a lost cause at this point. It's just a polite way of her saying "no" and you need to accept it.

"Game is won in comfort" - Asian Playboy.

You didn't run enough comfort game on her and as a result she isn't willing to meet up with you. Don't take it as an attack on your character, its just a hole in your game, no biggie.

Move on

-Kevin
 
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