Emperiorjack
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I picked up a girl at a club and twice I have ask her to come to a party and she always says her and her friend is hanging out. What do I do?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Girl I picked up from club never wants to hang out
- Thread starter Emperiorjack
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Dude get a clue. She doesn't want to hang out. Stop wasting your time and your dignity (or whatevers left of it).
Emperiorjack
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Well she doesn't like me then why is she still responding to me?
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Using that reasoning: If she liked you why isn't she hanging out with you?
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
If she wont come out, how the fvck are you supposed to close her? Cool your jets.. maybe you'll see her at the club in the future.. maybe not.. anyways when she is cool you need to be cooler..
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she is being nice that is all. Seriously you really REALLY need to read the 2 strikes rule.Emperiorjack said:Well she doesn't like me then why is she still responding to me?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154043
Kevin Feng
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Ok,
You need to move on, it's a lost cause at this point. It's just a polite way of her saying "no" and you need to accept it.
"Game is won in comfort" - Asian Playboy.
You didn't run enough comfort game on her and as a result she isn't willing to meet up with you. Don't take it as an attack on your character, its just a hole in your game, no biggie.
Move on
-Kevin
You need to move on, it's a lost cause at this point. It's just a polite way of her saying "no" and you need to accept it.
"Game is won in comfort" - Asian Playboy.
You didn't run enough comfort game on her and as a result she isn't willing to meet up with you. Don't take it as an attack on your character, its just a hole in your game, no biggie.
Move on
-Kevin