"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Girl I picked up from club never wants to hang out

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Emperiorjack

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I picked up a girl at a club and twice I have ask her to come to a party and she always says her and her friend is hanging out. What do I do?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SickAgain

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Dude get a clue. She doesn't want to hang out. Stop wasting your time and your dignity (or whatevers left of it).
 
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3countriesPlan

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If she wont come out, how the fvck are you supposed to close her? Cool your jets.. maybe you'll see her at the club in the future.. maybe not.. anyways when she is cool you need to be cooler..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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Kevin Feng

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Ok,

You need to move on, it's a lost cause at this point. It's just a polite way of her saying "no" and you need to accept it.

"Game is won in comfort" - Asian Playboy.

You didn't run enough comfort game on her and as a result she isn't willing to meet up with you. Don't take it as an attack on your character, its just a hole in your game, no biggie.

Move on

-Kevin
 
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