"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Girl I picked up from club never wants to hang out

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Emperiorjack

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I picked up a girl at a club and twice I have ask her to come to a party and she always says her and her friend is hanging out. What do I do?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SickAgain

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Dude get a clue. She doesn't want to hang out. Stop wasting your time and your dignity (or whatevers left of it).
 
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3countriesPlan

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If she wont come out, how the fvck are you supposed to close her? Cool your jets.. maybe you'll see her at the club in the future.. maybe not.. anyways when she is cool you need to be cooler..
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kevin Feng

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Ok,

You need to move on, it's a lost cause at this point. It's just a polite way of her saying "no" and you need to accept it.

"Game is won in comfort" - Asian Playboy.

You didn't run enough comfort game on her and as a result she isn't willing to meet up with you. Don't take it as an attack on your character, its just a hole in your game, no biggie.

Move on

-Kevin
 
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