Emperiorjack
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I picked up a girl at a club and twice I have ask her to come to a party and she always says her and her friend is hanging out. What do I do?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl I picked up from club never wants to hang out
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Dude get a clue. She doesn't want to hang out. Stop wasting your time and your dignity (or whatevers left of it).
Emperiorjack
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Well she doesn't like me then why is she still responding to me?
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Using that reasoning: If she liked you why isn't she hanging out with you?
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
If she wont come out, how the fvck are you supposed to close her? Cool your jets.. maybe you'll see her at the club in the future.. maybe not.. anyways when she is cool you need to be cooler..
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
she is being nice that is all. Seriously you really REALLY need to read the 2 strikes rule.Emperiorjack said:Well she doesn't like me then why is she still responding to me?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154043
Kevin Feng
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Ok,
You need to move on, it's a lost cause at this point. It's just a polite way of her saying "no" and you need to accept it.
"Game is won in comfort" - Asian Playboy.
You didn't run enough comfort game on her and as a result she isn't willing to meet up with you. Don't take it as an attack on your character, its just a hole in your game, no biggie.
Move on
-Kevin
You need to move on, it's a lost cause at this point. It's just a polite way of her saying "no" and you need to accept it.
"Game is won in comfort" - Asian Playboy.
You didn't run enough comfort game on her and as a result she isn't willing to meet up with you. Don't take it as an attack on your character, its just a hole in your game, no biggie.
Move on
-Kevin