Emperiorjack
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I picked up a girl at a club and twice I have ask her to come to a party and she always says her and her friend is hanging out. What do I do?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Girl I picked up from club never wants to hang out
- Thread starter Emperiorjack
- Start date
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Dude get a clue. She doesn't want to hang out. Stop wasting your time and your dignity (or whatevers left of it).
Emperiorjack
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Well she doesn't like me then why is she still responding to me?
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
Using that reasoning: If she liked you why isn't she hanging out with you?
3countriesPlan
Master Don Juan
If she wont come out, how the fvck are you supposed to close her? Cool your jets.. maybe you'll see her at the club in the future.. maybe not.. anyways when she is cool you need to be cooler..
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
she is being nice that is all. Seriously you really REALLY need to read the 2 strikes rule.Emperiorjack said:Well she doesn't like me then why is she still responding to me?
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154043
Kevin Feng
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Ok,
You need to move on, it's a lost cause at this point. It's just a polite way of her saying "no" and you need to accept it.
"Game is won in comfort" - Asian Playboy.
You didn't run enough comfort game on her and as a result she isn't willing to meet up with you. Don't take it as an attack on your character, its just a hole in your game, no biggie.
Move on
-Kevin
You need to move on, it's a lost cause at this point. It's just a polite way of her saying "no" and you need to accept it.
"Game is won in comfort" - Asian Playboy.
You didn't run enough comfort game on her and as a result she isn't willing to meet up with you. Don't take it as an attack on your character, its just a hole in your game, no biggie.
Move on
-Kevin