Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
Should I bite and surprise her with something? If so, any suggestions?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Girl i am dating says she likes surprises
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
if she was american i would fully agree with you. I forgot to mention she is chinese and based on my friends that have or are dating chinese girls they tell me you have to act completely different with them. They said being nice actually works. I know it sounds insane and blasphemous 
So i guess i am seeking out people who have dated chinese girls.
So i guess i am seeking out people who have dated chinese girls.Jerry Maguire
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surprise!
buttsechs!
buttsechs!
Marriage papers!Mr. Delicious said:
Ha ha. Someone had the hiccups. Me, claiming to have a perfect cure, started of with this psychobabel hypno thing. Then I just yelled at her. Startled the heck out of her. There's your suprise.
boo!
Actually, you might consider something romantic, but only after a little while of dating. No grand gestures right away. Holidays (closer to christmas) might be an idea. Then she's not expecting a suprise (I hope not, anyway!)
It can be simple, but still fun. take her to a play, concert, or something she wanted to see, but don't tell her where you're taking her. Maybe you can even get some friends in on it.
But then, I'm pretty decent at knowing "little cuddly aaaaaaaaaaaww type things" to do with women.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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show her how to pick up chicks
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MooseGod
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stick it in her butt...then yell "SURPRISE!!!" :crackup:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.