Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
Should I bite and surprise her with something? If so, any suggestions?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Girl i am dating says she likes surprises
- Thread starter Mr. Delicious
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
if she was american i would fully agree with you. I forgot to mention she is chinese and based on my friends that have or are dating chinese girls they tell me you have to act completely different with them. They said being nice actually works. I know it sounds insane and blasphemous 
So i guess i am seeking out people who have dated chinese girls.
So i guess i am seeking out people who have dated chinese girls.Jerry Maguire
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surprise!
buttsechs!
buttsechs!
Marriage papers!Mr. Delicious said:
Ha ha. Someone had the hiccups. Me, claiming to have a perfect cure, started of with this psychobabel hypno thing. Then I just yelled at her. Startled the heck out of her. There's your suprise.
boo!
Actually, you might consider something romantic, but only after a little while of dating. No grand gestures right away. Holidays (closer to christmas) might be an idea. Then she's not expecting a suprise (I hope not, anyway!)
It can be simple, but still fun. take her to a play, concert, or something she wanted to see, but don't tell her where you're taking her. Maybe you can even get some friends in on it.
But then, I'm pretty decent at knowing "little cuddly aaaaaaaaaaaww type things" to do with women.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
redspicyflag
Master Don Juan
show her how to pick up chicks
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MooseGod
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stick it in her butt...then yell "SURPRISE!!!" :crackup:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.