Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
Should I bite and surprise her with something? If so, any suggestions?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Girl i am dating says she likes surprises
- Thread starter Mr. Delicious
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Mr. Delicious
Senior Don Juan
if she was american i would fully agree with you. I forgot to mention she is chinese and based on my friends that have or are dating chinese girls they tell me you have to act completely different with them. They said being nice actually works. I know it sounds insane and blasphemous 
So i guess i am seeking out people who have dated chinese girls.
So i guess i am seeking out people who have dated chinese girls.Jerry Maguire
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surprise!
buttsechs!
buttsechs!
Marriage papers!Mr. Delicious said:
Ha ha. Someone had the hiccups. Me, claiming to have a perfect cure, started of with this psychobabel hypno thing. Then I just yelled at her. Startled the heck out of her. There's your suprise.
boo!
Actually, you might consider something romantic, but only after a little while of dating. No grand gestures right away. Holidays (closer to christmas) might be an idea. Then she's not expecting a suprise (I hope not, anyway!)
It can be simple, but still fun. take her to a play, concert, or something she wanted to see, but don't tell her where you're taking her. Maybe you can even get some friends in on it.
But then, I'm pretty decent at knowing "little cuddly aaaaaaaaaaaww type things" to do with women.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Master Don Juan
show her how to pick up chicks
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MooseGod
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stick it in her butt...then yell "SURPRISE!!!" :crackup:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.