RSanders219
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Well as the thread title says, how would you.. Or how have you played off this calling out?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Girl calls you out on being ****y, how would you play it off?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TheManOfSteel
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"Why yes, thank you I am but quit looking down there, my face is up here."
Check, and mate.
Check, and mate.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
tryst type
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"thanks for noticing!"
The Bad Ass Canadian
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"You like it..."
followed by a sly grin.
followed by a sly grin.
RSanders219
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I've always gone for this personally, then following it up with a "So what else do you likeThe Bad Ass Canadian said:
" when texting. Sh!t works great and cooks up some sexual tension.Marvin Gaye
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I dig the "You would be ****y too if you were full of me,"
The College Jock
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I'd flip the script back on her, and call her out.
''Why are you talking about my disabilities (disabilities being your ''****y attitude'') like that....Look how long we go back?, When are you going to cook me dinner, I like shepherd's pie'' with a ''lol'',
So she knows I'm busting her balls - I won't say ''Only kidding or just joking'',
''Why are you talking about my disabilities (disabilities being your ''****y attitude'') like that....Look how long we go back?, When are you going to cook me dinner, I like shepherd's pie'' with a ''lol'',
So she knows I'm busting her balls - I won't say ''Only kidding or just joking'',
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Jesus-thefvckbastard-Christ.
All of these replies make my balls hurt.
If she has the time to think you're needing to be called out, you're one of her girlfriends.
Always keep the hamster spinning wheels in her noggin' with the mystery of what you're going to do to her.
All of these replies make my balls hurt.
If she has the time to think you're needing to be called out, you're one of her girlfriends.
Always keep the hamster spinning wheels in her noggin' with the mystery of what you're going to do to her.