RSanders219
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Well as the thread title says, how would you.. Or how have you played off this calling out?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Girl calls you out on being ****y, how would you play it off?
- Thread starter RSanders219
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
TheManOfSteel
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"Why yes, thank you I am but quit looking down there, my face is up here."
Check, and mate.
Check, and mate.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
tryst type
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"thanks for noticing!"
The Bad Ass Canadian
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"You like it..."
followed by a sly grin.
followed by a sly grin.
RSanders219
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I've always gone for this personally, then following it up with a "So what else do you likeThe Bad Ass Canadian said:
" when texting. Sh!t works great and cooks up some sexual tension.Marvin Gaye
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I dig the "You would be ****y too if you were full of me,"
The College Jock
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I'd flip the script back on her, and call her out.
''Why are you talking about my disabilities (disabilities being your ''****y attitude'') like that....Look how long we go back?, When are you going to cook me dinner, I like shepherd's pie'' with a ''lol'',
So she knows I'm busting her balls - I won't say ''Only kidding or just joking'',
''Why are you talking about my disabilities (disabilities being your ''****y attitude'') like that....Look how long we go back?, When are you going to cook me dinner, I like shepherd's pie'' with a ''lol'',
So she knows I'm busting her balls - I won't say ''Only kidding or just joking'',
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Jesus-thefvckbastard-Christ.
All of these replies make my balls hurt.
If she has the time to think you're needing to be called out, you're one of her girlfriends.
Always keep the hamster spinning wheels in her noggin' with the mystery of what you're going to do to her.
All of these replies make my balls hurt.
If she has the time to think you're needing to be called out, you're one of her girlfriends.
Always keep the hamster spinning wheels in her noggin' with the mystery of what you're going to do to her.