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Am and sticking out like a sore thumb when a girl asks if your gay in a gay club?
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What page?OP read the book of pook. He addresses this. But coming from you i would expect this
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
That is fine, you must probably attractive.Am and sticking out like a sore thumb when a girl asks if your gay in a gay club?
Some straight guys go to those clubs thinking they may have an advantage with women because they would have little male competition there.Sounds like a quasi incel strategy for hoping a straight woman will turn you into straight (but are really trying to desperately cop a feel or break a dry spell).
Why are you in a gay club? Maybe you're bi-curious.Am and sticking out like a sore thumb when a girl asks if your gay in a gay club?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yeah I don't feel 100% comfortable when a guy comes up and grabs you around the waist and says hey sexy. Only happened once out of the 4 times i was there. I just danced and moved away from them and then some girls danced with me.Do you feel molested when guys grope you on these clubs or do you like it? I dont go to bars but the thought of going to one, I cant think of a worst place. How can you stomach such a place? To meet girls that way? Sounds like a quasi incel strategy for hoping a straight woman will turn you into straight (but are really trying to desperately cop a feel or break a dry spell).
I am surprised there are hot girls in gay clubs. Most lesbians are very ugly. However bisexual girls are often very hot and those are more common than lesbians so a lot of those girls may have been into guys.I had never seen so many attractive women in a club (typically clubs then had tons of fatties or well-post-wall cougars). I fact, I had never seen a club with such a great poontang-to-sausage ratio! But after a few minutes, I noticed that the gals were "in" to each other a whole lot more than they should. I quickly put 2 & 2 together, and figured out what the deal was, and left.![]()
Some "hot girls" go in There for a exciting party experience.I am surprised there are hot girls in gay clubs. Most lesbians are very ugly. However bisexual girls are often very hot and those are more common than lesbians so a lot of those girls may have been into guys.
The pairs all seemed to be an attractive chick with a beast.I am surprised there are hot girls in gay clubs. Most lesbians are very ugly. However bisexual girls are often very hot and those are more common than lesbians so a lot of those girls may have been into guys.
Yeah I don't feel 100% comfortable when a guy comes up and grabs you around the waist and says hey sexy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.