7onriverI f
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Am and sticking out like a sore thumb when a girl asks if your gay in a gay club?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
girl asks if your gay in a gayclub?
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
PeasantPlayer
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She probably liked you, think about it
PeasantPlayer
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What page?
redskinsfan92
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That's a rather normal question to ask a guy who is in a GAYCLUB
Common sense
Common sense
PeasantPlayer
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Was this post edited, I don't remember the gay club part just a club in general. Now I feel like this is a troll post
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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WHY THE H3LL WOULD YOU BE IN A GAY CLUB IF YOU ARE NOT A PETER PUFFER?
That said, I can remember driving around one night (mid 90s) after a lame crowd at my starter joint, and I saw a bunch of quite hot chicks walking around a club called "The Rainbow"
. The name didn't quite register, so I decided to check it out.
I had never seen so many attractive women in a club (typically clubs then had tons of fatties or well-post-wall cougars). I fact, I had never seen a club with such a great poontang-to-sausage ratio! But after a few minutes, I noticed that the gals were "in" to each other a whole lot more than they should. I quickly put 2 & 2 together, and figured out what the deal was, and left.
That said, I can remember driving around one night (mid 90s) after a lame crowd at my starter joint, and I saw a bunch of quite hot chicks walking around a club called "The Rainbow"
. The name didn't quite register, so I decided to check it out.I had never seen so many attractive women in a club (typically clubs then had tons of fatties or well-post-wall cougars). I fact, I had never seen a club with such a great poontang-to-sausage ratio! But after a few minutes, I noticed that the gals were "in" to each other a whole lot more than they should. I quickly put 2 & 2 together, and figured out what the deal was, and left.
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That is fine, you must probably attractive.
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Do you feel molested when guys grope you on these clubs or do you like it? I dont go to bars but the thought of going to one, I cant think of a worst place. How can you stomach such a place? To meet girls that way? Sounds like a quasi incel strategy for hoping a straight woman will turn you into straight (but are really trying to desperately cop a feel or break a dry spell).
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Some straight guys go to those clubs thinking they may have an advantage with women because they would have little male competition there.
I would never try that. Although I have been hit on by gay guys at regular nightclubs a few times in the past.
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Why are you in a gay club? Maybe you're bi-curious.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Yeah I don't feel 100% comfortable when a guy comes up and grabs you around the waist and says hey sexy. Only happened once out of the 4 times i was there. I just danced and moved away from them and then some girls danced with me.
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I am surprised there are hot girls in gay clubs. Most lesbians are very ugly. However bisexual girls are often very hot and those are more common than lesbians so a lot of those girls may have been into guys.I had never seen so many attractive women in a club (typically clubs then had tons of fatties or well-post-wall cougars). I fact, I had never seen a club with such a great poontang-to-sausage ratio! But after a few minutes, I noticed that the gals were "in" to each other a whole lot more than they should. I quickly put 2 & 2 together, and figured out what the deal was, and left.
mrgoodstuff
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Some "hot girls" go in There for a exciting party experience.
On some dates i escorted babes into the male strip club. Got them excited and fvcked them hard afterwards.
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The pairs all seemed to be an attractive chick with a beast.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Are you stupid? If shes asking you if you're gay, its because YOU"RE IN A ****IGN GAY CLUB.. SAY Hell no babe and im glad you found me.. or "are you?" she says: "No".. "Alright, well you just became my best friend tonight".. *put arm around her*, go buy her a drink, flatter her with bull****, and layeth the pipe
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Said yes and immediately grab dude next to you stick a D in and give the proudest thumb high to her.