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Am and sticking out like a sore thumb when a girl asks if your gay in a gay club?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
girl asks if your gay in a gayclub?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PeasantPlayer
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She probably liked you, think about it
PeasantPlayer
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What page?
redskinsfan92
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That's a rather normal question to ask a guy who is in a GAYCLUB
Common sense
Common sense
PeasantPlayer
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Was this post edited, I don't remember the gay club part just a club in general. Now I feel like this is a troll post
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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WHY THE H3LL WOULD YOU BE IN A GAY CLUB IF YOU ARE NOT A PETER PUFFER?
That said, I can remember driving around one night (mid 90s) after a lame crowd at my starter joint, and I saw a bunch of quite hot chicks walking around a club called "The Rainbow"
. The name didn't quite register, so I decided to check it out.
I had never seen so many attractive women in a club (typically clubs then had tons of fatties or well-post-wall cougars). I fact, I had never seen a club with such a great poontang-to-sausage ratio! But after a few minutes, I noticed that the gals were "in" to each other a whole lot more than they should. I quickly put 2 & 2 together, and figured out what the deal was, and left.
That said, I can remember driving around one night (mid 90s) after a lame crowd at my starter joint, and I saw a bunch of quite hot chicks walking around a club called "The Rainbow"
. The name didn't quite register, so I decided to check it out.I had never seen so many attractive women in a club (typically clubs then had tons of fatties or well-post-wall cougars). I fact, I had never seen a club with such a great poontang-to-sausage ratio! But after a few minutes, I noticed that the gals were "in" to each other a whole lot more than they should. I quickly put 2 & 2 together, and figured out what the deal was, and left.
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That is fine, you must probably attractive.
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Do you feel molested when guys grope you on these clubs or do you like it? I dont go to bars but the thought of going to one, I cant think of a worst place. How can you stomach such a place? To meet girls that way? Sounds like a quasi incel strategy for hoping a straight woman will turn you into straight (but are really trying to desperately cop a feel or break a dry spell).
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Some straight guys go to those clubs thinking they may have an advantage with women because they would have little male competition there.
I would never try that. Although I have been hit on by gay guys at regular nightclubs a few times in the past.
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Why are you in a gay club? Maybe you're bi-curious.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Yeah I don't feel 100% comfortable when a guy comes up and grabs you around the waist and says hey sexy. Only happened once out of the 4 times i was there. I just danced and moved away from them and then some girls danced with me.
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I am surprised there are hot girls in gay clubs. Most lesbians are very ugly. However bisexual girls are often very hot and those are more common than lesbians so a lot of those girls may have been into guys.I had never seen so many attractive women in a club (typically clubs then had tons of fatties or well-post-wall cougars). I fact, I had never seen a club with such a great poontang-to-sausage ratio! But after a few minutes, I noticed that the gals were "in" to each other a whole lot more than they should. I quickly put 2 & 2 together, and figured out what the deal was, and left.
mrgoodstuff
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Some "hot girls" go in There for a exciting party experience.
On some dates i escorted babes into the male strip club. Got them excited and fvcked them hard afterwards.
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The pairs all seemed to be an attractive chick with a beast.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Are you stupid? If shes asking you if you're gay, its because YOU"RE IN A ****IGN GAY CLUB.. SAY Hell no babe and im glad you found me.. or "are you?" she says: "No".. "Alright, well you just became my best friend tonight".. *put arm around her*, go buy her a drink, flatter her with bull****, and layeth the pipe
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Said yes and immediately grab dude next to you stick a D in and give the proudest thumb high to her.