7onriverI f
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Am and sticking out like a sore thumb when a girl asks if your gay in a gay club?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
girl asks if your gay in a gayclub?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
PeasantPlayer
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She probably liked you, think about it
PeasantPlayer
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What page?
redskinsfan92
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That's a rather normal question to ask a guy who is in a GAYCLUB
Common sense
Common sense
PeasantPlayer
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Was this post edited, I don't remember the gay club part just a club in general. Now I feel like this is a troll post
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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WHY THE H3LL WOULD YOU BE IN A GAY CLUB IF YOU ARE NOT A PETER PUFFER?
That said, I can remember driving around one night (mid 90s) after a lame crowd at my starter joint, and I saw a bunch of quite hot chicks walking around a club called "The Rainbow"
. The name didn't quite register, so I decided to check it out.
I had never seen so many attractive women in a club (typically clubs then had tons of fatties or well-post-wall cougars). I fact, I had never seen a club with such a great poontang-to-sausage ratio! But after a few minutes, I noticed that the gals were "in" to each other a whole lot more than they should. I quickly put 2 & 2 together, and figured out what the deal was, and left.
That said, I can remember driving around one night (mid 90s) after a lame crowd at my starter joint, and I saw a bunch of quite hot chicks walking around a club called "The Rainbow"
. The name didn't quite register, so I decided to check it out.I had never seen so many attractive women in a club (typically clubs then had tons of fatties or well-post-wall cougars). I fact, I had never seen a club with such a great poontang-to-sausage ratio! But after a few minutes, I noticed that the gals were "in" to each other a whole lot more than they should. I quickly put 2 & 2 together, and figured out what the deal was, and left.
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That is fine, you must probably attractive.
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Do you feel molested when guys grope you on these clubs or do you like it? I dont go to bars but the thought of going to one, I cant think of a worst place. How can you stomach such a place? To meet girls that way? Sounds like a quasi incel strategy for hoping a straight woman will turn you into straight (but are really trying to desperately cop a feel or break a dry spell).
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Some straight guys go to those clubs thinking they may have an advantage with women because they would have little male competition there.
I would never try that. Although I have been hit on by gay guys at regular nightclubs a few times in the past.
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Why are you in a gay club? Maybe you're bi-curious.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Yeah I don't feel 100% comfortable when a guy comes up and grabs you around the waist and says hey sexy. Only happened once out of the 4 times i was there. I just danced and moved away from them and then some girls danced with me.
devilkingx2
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I am surprised there are hot girls in gay clubs. Most lesbians are very ugly. However bisexual girls are often very hot and those are more common than lesbians so a lot of those girls may have been into guys.I had never seen so many attractive women in a club (typically clubs then had tons of fatties or well-post-wall cougars). I fact, I had never seen a club with such a great poontang-to-sausage ratio! But after a few minutes, I noticed that the gals were "in" to each other a whole lot more than they should. I quickly put 2 & 2 together, and figured out what the deal was, and left.
mrgoodstuff
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Some "hot girls" go in There for a exciting party experience.
On some dates i escorted babes into the male strip club. Got them excited and fvcked them hard afterwards.
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The pairs all seemed to be an attractive chick with a beast.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Are you stupid? If shes asking you if you're gay, its because YOU"RE IN A ****IGN GAY CLUB.. SAY Hell no babe and im glad you found me.. or "are you?" she says: "No".. "Alright, well you just became my best friend tonight".. *put arm around her*, go buy her a drink, flatter her with bull****, and layeth the pipe
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Said yes and immediately grab dude next to you stick a D in and give the proudest thumb high to her.