BillyPilgrim
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The ghosting is being real, the fake/nice letdown is a power move. Bonus for her if you grovel and ask for explanation.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ghosting Is Out and Speed-Dumping Is In
- Thread starter Clockwerk50
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Duke
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The only time it mattered to me was when I didnt have any other options lined up. Put yourself in a position that you have multiple women you are talking to and you won't care if one of them flakes/ghosts/speed dumps you.
BackInTheGame78
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What difference does it make the way a woman tells you she isn't interested? The end result is still the same.
The Duke
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Only to those that are emotionally invested when they shouldn't be.